Sunday 27 September 2015

WAY TO, I AM A PROUD INDIAN DAUGHTER



On daughter's day, seeing much of the parents feeling proud and expressing their affection for their daughters. What India feels for its daughters today?

I remember an IAS Officer saying, an administrative officer also suffers as a woman in India. We have seen our daughters burning in flames, sexually and physically assaulted, always bigoted secondary in society, a list to discrimination which never ends. I also remember Mary Kom, Sania Mirza, Saina Naihwal with clinging medals, sparkling with brightness. The way in which Indian woman are leading and gaining remarkable status and equity in society, representing India worldwide and bringing laurels to the nation, definitely make India proud on her daughters. But way is very less achieved, When daughters will feel proud to be Indian?

Indian society is still resistive to change its views for woman, a barrier to momentum. Indian families way with daughters have gain significant change and they are getting chances to move, lead and grow but women concern in society to  gain equal standing is still standing on edge to revolution . Lets be part of this revolution, because we want to say loud and clear, I am a proud Indian daughter.






Wednesday 16 September 2015

STRINGENT FATHERS ARE FLEXIBLE NOW




Doesn't this look beautiful? It was always the mom who took the share of care, but today with decrease in generation gap, fathers flexibility in terms of parenting has reached in equity with mother.

It was an inflexible society which gave mother the title of "homemakers" bigoted "caretakers" and father "the money makers". The share of love and affection in such case reaches to a level of respect but miss the bond which is strong with mom and less with Hitler. The relation is more than of full filling the needs in terms of paying the school fees and completion of basic amenities of a child. Isn't it?

What has brought this change? Today mothers are working and have equal share in managing and supporting  home finance and this has lead to broad minded culture, a mindset which says equity in each share.

Yeah conflicting to the interests , a little India reside in this mindset but for change a seed is enough. There is just a little more time to cover and of course lucky will be generations  to grow in strength and love of both father and mother.